Moving Out of State with no Child Custody Agreement in California

Moving Out of State with no Child Custody Agreement in California

Updated: April 09, 2025
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As a parent, you want the best for your children. But, in the aftermath of a divorce or separation, various laws determine your rights and duties as a parent. Complications may arise when the custodial parent wants to relocate with the child. Even in the absence of a custody agreement, the parent wishing to relocate must confirm with the legal procedures to avoid potential consequences.

Overview of California Child Custody Laws

Child custody in California is guided by the best interests of the child, which includes various factors considered by the court to determine how custody will be awarded to the parents. Here’s what the judge will take into consideration:

  1. The child’s age, health, and needs
  2. The mental & physical health of the parents
  3. The emotional ties the child has with each parent
  4. Each parent’s ability to care for the child
  5. Whether there’s a history of family abuse or substance abuse of either parent

Types of Child Custody in California

The two main types of custody are physical custody, which determines where the child will live, and legal custody, referring to the parental right of decision-making on important matters. Both these types of custody can be further divided into:

  • Sole Physical Custody: The child primarily resides with one parent while the other gets visitation rights.
  • Joint Physical Custody: The child spends equal amounts of time with each parent per an agreed-upon time-sharing arrangement.
  • Sole Legal Custody: Under this arrangement, only one parent can make important decisions regarding the child’s welfare and upbringing.
  • Joint Legal Custody: Both parents share decision-making rights on important matters like the child’s education, healthcare, religion, etc.

Generally, the court will prioritize both parents sharing custody so each parent has frequent and meaningful contact with the child. However, if joint custody negatively affects the best interests of the child, the court will award sole custody.

Your Parental Rights Without a Custody Agreement

It’s essential to understand your rights and responsibilities as a parent before you consider relocation without a formal custody agreement.

  1. Both parents have equal rights and responsibilities towards the child until the court says otherwise.
  2. The parent with whom the child resides gets de facto physical custody (although this doesn’t grant relocation rights).
  3. Both parents have an equal say in decisions regarding the child’s education, medical care, religious upbringing, etc.
  4. Both parents have equal rights to pick up the child from school and authorize school-related activities.
  5. Each parent can make medical decisions, however, they must consult with each other for major healthcare choices.
  6. Both parents have equal say in the child’s religious upbringing without a formal agreement.
  7. Both parents have the right to maintain reasonable contact with the child.
  8. California courts prefer both parents to maintain frequent & continuous contact with the child.
  9. Without an agreement, both parents have equal access to the child’s medical, school, and legal records.
  10. Even without a custody agreement, a parent wanting to relocate with the child may require the other parent’s consent or the court’s approval prior to the move.
  11. Both parents have the financial responsibility for the child, even in the absence of any custody order or agreement,
  12. Either parent can possess the child’s personal property if there’s no custody agreement.

Can I Leave the State with my Child if There’s No Child Custody Agreement?

In the absence of a custody agreement, you should not leave the state with your child without the other parent’s consent or court approval. Remember, relocating with your child without notifying the co-parent and court may lead to parental kidnapping charges. The reason the law prohibits such a move, even without a custody agreement, is because:

  1. Equal Rights Doctrine: Both parents have equal rights to the child without a custody agreement.
  2. Custodial Interference: Moving across state lines violates the other parent’s custody rights and could be construed as custody interference by the court.
  3. Legal Action: If the move isn’t consented or approved, the other parent can request immediate custody and the child’s immediate return.
  4. Parental Character: If a legal action is filed and you are forced to return, it may be weighed against you in future custody proceedings.

To make sure your relocation is legally sound and doesn’t invite future issues, you can:

  1. Get written consent from the other parent or
  2. File for custody with the court and request a relocation.or

It’s wise to consult with an attorney if you want to move away with your child. At Jos Family Law, we know the factors that courts consider in relocation cases. We will provide guidance for your situation and protect your parental rights.

Factors Determining Parental Relocation Cases in California

  • The Child’s Best Interests

    The core of every custody case (including relocation) revolves around the child’s well-being. The court will focus on the child’s physical, emotional, psychological, and educational needs and whether the proposed move would disrupt these aspects.

  • Parental Motive for Relocation

    After the child’s best interests, the judge will evaluate the motive behind the move. If the desire to relocate arises due to career advancement, educational opportunities for the child, or proximity to family, the court will be more likely to ratify the move.

  • Impact on the Co-parent’s Relationship with the Child

    The relocation may affect the co-parent’s relationship with the child and visitation rights. The court will assess how the move will alter the parent-child bond and whether visitation rights can be reasonably preserved.

  • The Child’s Quality of Life

    The court will take into account the living conditions and educational opportunities created by the relocation. If the move enhances the child’s quality of life, the court will be favorable toward the request.

  • Cooperation & Communication Between the Parents

    In custody cases, parental cooperation and communication are pivotal. The willingness of both parents to co-parent and maintain visitation schedules will majorly impact the court’s decision.

In short, parents must prepare for these aspects beforehand. Each factor carries its own weight, and parents must build a strong case that is in the child’s best interests.

The Legal Risks of Relocating with the Child Without a Custody Agreement

  • Court Intervention

    The other parent may petition the court to have the child returned to California, with the possibility of contempt of court charges upon your failure.

  • Parental Kidnapping Charges

    In extreme circumstances, a relocation without consent may trigger charges of parental kidnapping.

  • Impact on Custody Rights

    Relocating without approval may negatively impact future custody decisions, as the court would interpret it as interference with the other parent’s custody rights.

How to Relocate With Your Child Successfully?

  • Gather Documents

    Collect your child’s birth certificate, school records, medical records, any written communication you’ve had with the other parent regarding custody and visitation, along with other documents that support your motive for the relocation.

  • Obtain Legal Consent

    Send a written notification to the other parent detailing the location, timing, and reasons for the move. Make sure you have their written consent in this lieu.

  • Create a Parenting Plan

    Draft a detailed parenting plan with the help of your attorney stating how the other parent can maintain a meaningful relationship with the child and exercise his/her visitation rights after the move. The plan should also contain visitation-related travel arrangements, including mode of transport, cost, and timing.

  • Support your Motive for the Move

    If your relocation is due to a career change, better education for the child, or improved living conditions, start gathering evidence to back up your request, including school records, healthcare options, and support systems in the new location.

Don’t Act in Haste

It is critical you consult an Orange County child custody attorney if you are planning to relocate but do not have a custody agreement in place. At Jos Family Law, we will follow the due process of law to ensure you relocate with your child without legal hurdles or adverse consequences. Schedule a consultation with our team today to learn more.


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