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Irvine Family Law Attorneys You Can Trust

At Jos Family Law, we understand that family law issues are deeply personal, emotionally overwhelming, and legally complex. Issues like divorce, child custody, and property division can take a huge emotional toll on your family, emphasizing the need for robust legal representation. Whether you are at loggerheads with your spouse over parental rights or property rights, hiring an experienced attorney can make a significant difference to the outcome of your case.

At Jos Family Law, we are here to empower you every step of the way with comprehensive legal guidance and excellent advocacy. Our Irvine family law attorneys have 55 years of combined experience handling complex family law issues in Orange County. We are committed to helping you make informed decisions about your future so you can move ahead with clarity and confidence. We offer strategic and compassionate representation tailored to your unique circumstances, needs, and goals.

Schedule a consultation by calling (714) 733-7066 or filling out the online form today and taking the first step to a secure future.


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    Our Practice Areas

  1. Contested & Uncontested Divorce

    Divorce can be complex & overwhelming. Whether contested or uncontested, we are here to guide you through every step, protecting your rights and empowering you to make informed decisions along the way.

  2. Child Custody & Visitation

    We know how to protect your parental rights and your child’s best interests. We will fight for you and your child to ensure you spend quality time together.

  3. Child Support

    Our firm understands the factors involved in child support calculations. Our attorneys will present an idea of how much child support you can expect to pay/receive for your child’s financial well-being.

  4. Spousal Support (Alimony)

    Jos Family Law has experience in establishing, modifying, and terminating spousal support with fair and reasonable outcomes.

  5. Property Division

    Our expertise and resourcefulness in property division laws allow us to represent your financial interests, reach an equitable solution and protect your property.

  6. Domestic Violence

    Whether you are a victim or have been accused of domestic violence, we will protect your rights and guide you through your options to obtain the best outcome possible.

  7. Paternity

    Our law firm helps mothers & fathers in establishing or contesting paternity and securing their parental rights.

  8. Prenuptial & Postnuptial Agreements

    At Jos Family Law, we use our knowledge & expertise to help you create prenuptial/postnuptial agreements that protect your property rights and are held up in court.

  9. Modification of Orders

    We can advise or assist you in obtaining or defending a modification of your family law orders when they are no longer feasible for you or your children.

  10. Divorce Mediation

    Avoid the ordeal of going to court with our trained divorce mediation attorneys, who can help you with a cooperative, amicable, and structured end to your marriage.

  11. Attorney’s Fees

    Our attorneys will advocate on your behalf to obtain legal fees from your ex-spouse or partner so you can remain financially stress-free throughout your case.

Understanding Your Rights in a California Divorce

California laws accord various rights to spouses, children, and parents. Here are your basic legal rights and responsibilities:

  1. Child-focused Custody Arrangements
  2. Duty to Support Your Minor Child
  3. Equal Share in Marital Assets & Debts (Community Property)
  4. Right/Obligation to Spousal Support
  5. Protection Against Domestic Violence
  6. The Right to Legal Representation

During your initial consultation, we will explain your rights and options pertaining to your situation and ensure they stay protected throughout the process.

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Should I Opt For a Divorce or Legal Separation?

In California, spouses wishing to part ways have two options - divorce or legal separation. Knowing the difference between the two is essential to making informed decisions that are likely to have a long-term impact on your life.

  • Divorce - Formally dissolves the marriage, restoring the ‘single’ status of the spouses and allowing them to remarry.
  • Legal Separation - Allows couples to live apart and divide property and finances. Mostly chosen for personal or religious reasons, with neither party having the right to remarriage.

The two major differences are that divorce is the permanent dissolution of marriage, whereas legal separation keeps the marriage intact, and the option of remarriage in divorce. Both are similar when it comes to making decisions about child custody, property division, and support obligations.

After grasping your situation and needs, we will recommend the best option that helps you move ahead.

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Contested v. Uncontested Divorce

Couples in California have two options to resolve the issues in their divorce. Each option has its pros and cons, but the method you choose will have a significant impact on how custody is established, property divided, and support determined.

  • Contested Divorce - When couples disagree on key issues like child custody, support, alimony, and property division, it becomes a contested divorce. These cases are litigated in court.
  • Uncontested Divorce - When you and your spouse agree to all the aspects of a divorce, it is called an uncontested divorce. It can be resolved by negotiation or mediation, offering a quicker and less costly alternative to trial.

Whether you prefer to settle disputes amicably or are prepared for a courtroom battle, we will protect your rights and aim for the best possible outcome.

Residency Requirements in California

To qualify for a California divorce, you or your spouse must have:

  1. Lived in California for at least six months
  2. Lived in the county you are filing for at least three months

Remember, there are no residency requirements for legal separation in California. If you do not qualify for a divorce, you can file for a legal separation and later for divorce.

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High Asset Divorce Considerations

A high net-worth divorce is one where the spouses have assets with significant monetary value. These kinds of divorces are governed by the same principles as a traditional divorce but are more complex due to the complexities of assets and debts owned by the spouses. Here are the key considerations of a high-asset divorce in California:

  • Identification of Assets

    The first consideration is to identify community or marital property. The court will determine whether or not some or all of the assets were owned by the parties prior to the marriage, whether the couple entered into a marital agreement, and whether or not either party inherited any property.

  • Valuation of Assets

    Valuation of complex assets like stocks and business interests can be difficult, especially if they are fluid. Experts like forensic accountants and business appraisers may be called in to examine documents, conduct research, and prepare a report appraising or valuing all community property.

  • Tax Implications

    Dividing property with significant value may trigger tax consequences. Once again, independent experts, like a CPA or tax attorney, may be brought in to determine the tax consequences of property division.

  • Spousal Support

    There may be instances where one spouse focused on growing the family wealth, whereas the other concentrated their time on raising children. If there’s a significant income disparity after divorce, the financially disadvantaged spouse has the right to seek alimony. They may either agree to an amount and duration of alimony, or the court will decide.

At Jos Family Law, we are experienced in high-asset divorce cases in California. Our attorneys can help with:

  1. Identifying community vs. separate property
  2. The valuation of complex assets like real estate, businesses, stocks, retirement accounts, etc.
  3. Uncovering hidden or undervalued assets
  4. Avoiding tax traps after asset division
  5. Determining alimony based on complex income sources

An Overview of Child Custody & Visitation in California

Child custody is the right and responsibility of both parents to take care of their children. In California, custody can be shared between parents or solely awarded to either parent. The court has the final say, based on the best interests of the child, but usually approves the parenting plan that both parties have agreed to. If the parents cannot agree, the judge will make the final decision, but not before the parents have tried to resolve differences with a mediator from Family Court Services.

To decide what’s in the best interests of the child, the court will consider:

  1. The age & health of the child
  2. The child’s emotional ties with each parent
  3. The ability of parents to care for the child
  4. The child’s ties to school and community
  5. Any history of family violence or substance abuse
  6. The child’s preferences

Courts do not award custody based on sex, marital status, religious beliefs, lifestyle choices, sexual orientation, or disability. In fact, if the court has reasonable grounds to believe that giving custody to either parent would harm the children, it may award custody to someone other than the parents in the best interests of the children.

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Legal Custody vs. Physical Custody

There are two kinds of child custody:

  • Legal custody, which means the right to make important decisions for children (like healthcare, education, religious upbringing, etc.)
  • Physical custody, which means where the child will reside.

Legal custody can be:

  1. Joint: Both parents share decision-making rights on important matters for their child.
  2. Sole: Only one parent has the exclusive right to make important decisions for their child.

Similarly, physical custody can:

  1. Joint: The child lives with each parent, as per a timeshare agreement.
  2. Sole: The child lives with one parent most of the time and usually visits the other parent.

Joint physical custody doesn’t mean the child will spend 50% of the time with each parent. This is because it’s hard to split time in half, and so even a 60% - 40% timeshare ratio would be considered joint custody. The parent with the larger share is called the primary custodial.

It is possible that the court orders joint legal custody but not joint physical custody. This means both parents share equal decision-making rights, but the child resides with one parent the majority of the time. Usually, the non-custodial parent will have visitation rights to spend time with the child.

Parenting Plans & Timesharing Agreements

In any custody situation, it is imperative that the parents work out a formal, detailed plan that outlines a convenient schedule for both parents and more importantly, the children. Working out a co-parenting plan is the first step towards a healthy relationship between co-parents, where both are involved in the child’s life as opposed to bitter conflicts and unnecessary stress on the child.

A parenting plan sets forth the custody and visitation plans, determining legal custody, physical custody, and the visitation schedule. Here’s a breakdown of what a parenting plan should include:

  1. Legal Custody

    The plan should include how parents will communicate and make important decisions, like the child’s school and child care, religious activities and institutions, mental health counseling/therapy/psychological or psychiatric evaluations, healthcare professionals, sporting activities, summer camp, vacation, extracurricular activities, and travel. You can tailor the plans to your needs and situation. For example, are there certain decisions where both parents must consent, like which school the child will enroll in or which doctor to consult? Or do both parents have the right to make all decisions after consulting with the other? In case of disagreement, will one parent have the veto power for medical and educational decisions?

  2. Physical Custody & Visitation Schedule

    Physical custody is the time spent by the child with each parent. While it is quite straightforward, situations where one parent has sole custody will require a detailed visitation plan. If both parents share custody, the agreement should clearly state the timesharing ratio.

  3. Visitation Schedule

    A visitation schedule can be broken down into everyday routines, holidays, and vacations. You and the other parent can decide which of these takes precedence. For example, if you have sole physical custody, will the other parent have the child during winter breaks or the regular holidays? Or if you want to take your child out-of-state for a trip during Thanksgiving but the other parent wants the child for a few days, who has the final say?

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  1. Custody Enforcement & Modification

    A court-ordered custody arrangement can provide the child stability and help parents exercise their rights. But what if your ex-spouse violates the order, or the arrangement is no longer feasible because your circumstances have changed? California law allows the enforcement and modification of child custody orders based on changed circumstances.

  2. Enforcement of Child Custody Orders

    Either parent can request enforcement if the other party consistently violates the custody order. For instance, the custodial parent may deny court-approved visitations with the child, or the non-custodial parent may keep the child beyond the agreed schedule. If your spouse persistently violates the order, you can consult with an attorney to help enforce and modify the order. The court may order the other parent to comply with the parenting plan or hold them in contempt charges if the violation continues.

  3. Modification of Child Custody Orders

    It may be possible that a custody order no longer meets the needs of the family’s changed circumstances. The court will assess whether there’s a significant change in circumstances and whether the proposed change is in the child’s best interests. You and the co-parent may choose to agree to a written modification of the order, which will be reviewed and typically approved by the court. But if either parent disagrees, filing a motion in court for a modification of the order is necessary to obtain a favorable alteration.

How Does California Determine Child Support?

Child support in California is determined by how much each parent earns and how much time the child spends with each parent. Typically, the non-custodial parent pays child support, but the responsibility shifts towards the higher-income parent if custody is shared. The amount of child support is calculated using a guideline formula estimated by California’s online program.

The judge will take into account various factors, such as:

  1. Each parent’s gross income
  2. The number of children
  3. The percentage of time each parent spends with each child
  4. Extracurricular, child care, and other necessary costs for the children
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Calculating Child Support Obligations

The basic formula for calculating child support is relatively straightforward. As a general rule, the greater the income of a parent and the less time the higher-earning parent spends with the child, the more child support they are obligated to pay. The formula is:

CS = K(HN - (H%) (TN))

  • CS is the child support amount
  • K refers to the combined total income of both parents that can be allocated to child support
  • HN is the higher-earning parent’s net monthly disposable income
  • H% is the percentage of time the higher-earning or primary custodial parent has compared to the other parent.
  • TN is the combined total net monthly disposable income of both parents.

The combined total income of both parents (K value) is determined using another formula based on the parent’s net disposable income and the time the higher-earning parent spends with the child. Various multipliers at various income levels are then applied to that number.

What is Considered ‘Income’ in Child Support Calculations?

The gross income of parents includes:

  1. Salaries, wages, commissions, and bonuses
  2. Business income
  3. Income from rental units
  4. Investment Income
  5. Housing & food military income
  6. Pensions & Annuities
  7. Worker’s compensation and disability and social security benefits

To calculate the net disposable income, the court will apply deductions like federal and state taxes, union dues, health insurance premiums, and child/spousal support from a past relationship.

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Enforcement & Modification of Child Support

In California, spouses wishing to part ways have two options - divorce or legal separation. Knowing the difference between the two is essential to making informed decisions that are likely to have a long-term impact on your life.

  • 1. Enforcement

    If the obligated parent does not pay support, the receiving parent can enforce the order by filing a request with The Department of Child Support Services (DCSS). DCSS have various tools to enforce child support payments, such as income withholding orders (IWOs) and wage garnishment, sent directly to the payor’s employer. Both these measures are meant to minimize further enforcement actions, which may include:

    1. Suspension of Driver’s License
    2. Passport Denial
    3. Bank Levy
    4. Property Lien
    5. Interception of Unemployment Benefit

    Failing to pay child support can have serious legal consequences. Non-compliant parents risk facing contempt of court charges, fines, and even criminal prosecution.

  • 2. Modification

    Significant change in circumstances of either parent is a valid ground to modify a child support order. The court may approve the change if it has sufficient grounds to believe that a modification is necessary, recognizing that the needs of a family may evolve over time. Some reasons to seek a modification include:

    1. Increase or decrease in either parent’s income
    2. Changes in custody or visitation schedule
    3. Evolving needs of the child, such as medical or educational costs

    Either parent may request a modification, showing evidence of the changed circumstances and how the change is consistent with their needs and the child’s best interests. The court will approve the modification to ensure the child support order remains fair and appropriate.

Are You Eligible For Spousal Support (Alimony)?

In California, spousal support laws prevent the lower-earning spouse from facing financial hardships and ensure they have the assistance they need to maintain their standard of living until they become self-supporting. The court will analyze various factors to determine if alimony should be paid, and if so, for how long.

The court will consider:

  1. The earning capacity of each party
  2. Whether the lower-earning spouse helped the other spouse obtain an education, training, career, or professional license
  3. The length of the marriage
  4. The age & health of both parties
  5. Each party’s assets & debts
  6. The needs of each party based on marital standard of living
  7. Documented history of domestic violence between the spouses or against the child
  8. Tax consequences to each party

If you have given up your career to raise children and the length of your marriage is over 10 years, you may be entitled to long-term spousal support. Instances like disability or inability to work full-time are also valid grounds for long-term alimony.

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The Difference Between Permanent & Temporary Spousal Support?

California law allows two kinds of alimony: temporary and permanent.

Temporary spousal support is granted during a divorce or legal separation if a party files such a request. It is meant to preserve the status quo of the parties while the divorce is still pending, allowing them to maintain a standard of living similar to what was established in their marriage. The court will set a temporary hearing where both parties must file an income and expense declaration. For temporary alimony, the court will only consider the needs of the requesting party and the obligated party’s ability to pay.

On the other hand, permanent spousal support is calculated based on all the factors mentioned above and is ordered after the divorce is finalized. Permanent spousal support can be modified or even terminated in case of:

  • Death of either party
  • Remarriage of the supported party
  • The court-set date
  • Significant change in circumstances of either party
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  1. Negotiating Fair Settlements That Work For You

    At Jos Family Law, we understand that spousal support can have long-term consequences on your financial well-being, whether you are entitled to receive or obligated to pay it. That’s why our focus revolves around strategic, result-driven negotiations to obtain a fair and reasonable outcome for everyone. This approach also helps us avoid unnecessary conflict, high costs, and time-consuming court battles, which should be the last resort.

    Our Irvine family law attorneys understand your unique situation to develop a tailored strategy rooted in practical solutions. Whichever side of the argument you are on, we will leverage our seasoned negotiation skills to protect your interests and financial future. We believe in a collaborative approach with 100% clarity and communication that delivers solutions that last.

    Call (714) 733-7066 to schedule a consultation with us if you have spousal support concerns.

Is California a Community Property State?

California is amongst the handful of states that follows community property rules. All marital property is considered community property, meaning that all assets & debts acquired by either spouse during the marriage is regarded jointly owned by them, subject to exceptions (property received as a gift or inheritance). Upon divorce, marital property is split equally between the spouses, regardless of which spouse acquired it.

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What is Regarded as Community Property?

The following are examples of what can be considered community property in California if acquired during the marriage:

  • Income
  • Bank Account
  • Retirement Account
  • Real Estate
  • Business Interests
  • Personal Belongings (Art, Jewellery, & Collectibles)
  • Intellectual Property
  • Debts

It’s important to know about California’s community property rules. If you don’t, you may accidentally convert your separate property into community property and lose a portion of your hard-earned asset.

For instance, suppose you buy a home after marriage with your pre-marital savings. If you don’t take the necessary steps, it will be regarded as community property, and you’ll own just 50% of it if your marriage ends.

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Division of Business, Real Estate, & Investments

Property division laws may seem straightforward, but are they really that simple? The process is long and complex - courts must first identify all assets and liabilities, classify community versus separate property, value all assets and debts, and consider tax consequences before dividing marital property.

However, issues arise when significant, high-net-worth assets are involved. These may involve:

  • Marital Homes, Vacation Homes, & Rental Units

    Whether it’s a marital home or a rental home, real estate acquired during the marriage falls under community property. This means it will be split evenly, even if titled under one spouse’s name. To divide real estate, the court may order its sale and divide proceeds between the spouses or ask one spouse to buy out the other’s interest. If the home was bought by separate funds but renovated or improved by community funds, the court may apply the Moore/Marsden analysis for division.

  • Businesses

    Any business started or acquired during the marriage is typically community property. The court may require a forensic accountant to determine the value of the business before dividing it. It would be divided equally even if the business started before the marriage, but its value rose during the marriage. The court may award the company to one spouse and offset the value by a payout or allocating other assets to the second spouse.

  • Investments & Retirement Accounts

    All contributions made towards investment accounts, stocks, pensions, and retirement plans are divisible if acquired during the marriage. These are highly complex, often requiring financial experts to trace what portion is separate and how much is community.

The Complexities of Commingled & Hidden Assets

Hidden or commingled assets present significant challenges during the property division process. If the spouses mix community assets with separate assets, or if one spouse is suspected of hiding or undervaluing assets, it will prolong and complicate the distribution process.

  1. Commingled Assets

    When separate property is mixed with community property, it can be difficult to distinguish the shares held by each spouse. For instance, if separate funds are deposited into a joint account, separating ownership will be challenging. The funds must then be traced to identify the original source and whether they should be treated as community or separate property. Expert analysis may be required to trace bank records and transaction histories.

  2. Hidden Assets

    If one spouse hides assets, the court may order a full financial disclosure. The spouse suspected of hiding assets must disclose all income, property, investments, and debts. With the aid of forensic accountants, the court will uncover hidden bank accounts, underreported income, or undervalued business interests. Hiding assets may result in severe penalties, such as awarding the full value of the asset to the other spouse.

To ensure fair and transparent disclosures, California allows subpoenas, depositions, and document requests to locate all marital property. A spouse suspected of hiding assets can face severe sanctions.

Careful documentation and legal assistance are required to resolve complex property divisions in California. Using a wealth of knowledge and experience, our Irvine property division lawyers will ensure an equitable outcome in your case.

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What Constitutes a Domestic Relationship?

The law accords protection to victims of domestic abuse by issuing restraining orders. But, before applying for a domestic violence restraining order (DVRO), you must first understand how California law defines domestic relationships. A DVRO can be issued against:

  1. A current or former spouse
  2. A person you are currently or were formerly dating
  3. The parent of your child
  4. A cohabitant
  5. A person closely related to you (grandparents, in-laws)

Understanding who can file a DVRO is the first step, the second being evidence that shows a restraining order is warranted.

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Emergency & Permanent Restraining Orders

California provides certain lines of defense to victims of abuse. The first line of defence is the emergency protective order (EPO). When a police officer responds to a domestic violence situation, they have the authority to speak to the judge and request an EPO. If the judge agrees that an EPO is necessary, it will be immediately issued and enforced. An EPO is valid for 7 days and can be replaced by a temporary and permanent restraining order once it expires.

  1. Temporary Restraining Order (TRO) - The victim may file paperwork with the court to obtain a TRO against the abuser. The judge will hear the petitioner and if satisfied, will pass an ex-parte TRO, typically lasting for 25 days or until replaced by a permanent restraining order.
  2. Permanent Restraining Order (PRO) - For a PRO to be granted, the judge will give a date for a full court hearing, offering both parties the chance to argue and make their case. If granted, a PRO can be valid for up to 5 years. When it’s about to expire, the court may schedule another hearing to determine if it should be further extended.

Whether emergency, temporary, or protective, once issued, a DVRO is meant to keep the abuser away from you and your family. A restraining order will require the restrained person to:

  1. Stay away from your home, place of work/business, and child’s school
  2. Stop contacting you
  3. Move out of the shared residence
  4. Surrender firearms to authorities
  5. Complete a batterer’s intervention program

If a DVRO is issued against you, not complying with its terms may be seen as a criminal violation. You will be charged, arrested, prosecuted, and convicted in case of serious or persistent violations.

If you need a protective or a restraining order against your abuser, Jos Family Law can help. We’ll explain your rights and options during this difficult time and protect you and your loved ones at all costs.

Does a Domestic Violence Charge Affect Divorce & Custody in California?

A domestic violence charge can have a profound impact on divorce and custody matters. Here’s how a charge affects family law cases:

  1. Divorce Proceedings

    Although California operates under the no-fault system, domestic violence can seriously influence its outcome, particularly in child custody, support, and alimony cases. To protect victims, the court may expedite the divorce process or adjust proceedings, underscoring the importance of protection to victims.

  2. Property Division & Spousal Support Concerns

    Domestic violence plays a major role when property division and spousal support are determined. Courts may award a larger share of community property to the victim, recognizing the emotional and psychological toll of the violence. Spousal support may also be impacted if the violence causes career disruptions to the victim. Moreover, the abusive spouse loses his/her right to seek spousal support if the charges are proven.

  3. Custody & Visitation Considerations

    Even a single instance of domestic violence changes everything in custody and visitation. Parental or spousal abuse is a significant factor when the court evaluates the best interests of the child. When considering the child’s emotional and physical needs and parental home environment, the child’s safety and stability are the primary concerns.

The court may implement supervised visitations to protect the children when they are with the abusive parent. This maintains the parent-child relationship while ensuring the child’s safety in a monitored environment. The parent may also be ordered to complete intervention programs. In cases of severe violence, the court may rescind custody rights and even disallow visitation rights.

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Prenuptial/Postnuptial Agreements & Property Division in California

Prenups and postnups are agreements between couples that dictate what happens to their current and future assets during marriage and in the event of a divorce. It must be remembered that without a marital agreement, California’s community property laws will govern this, with all assets and debts earned during the marriage being split equally.

Marital agreements allow you to alter California’s community property rules and divide assets and debts the way you want to, even if not equally. The agreement may relate to all financial interests, income, real estate, and debts.

Parties must disclose financial information to each other. Each spouse must be fully aware of the other’s financial situation before signing the agreement. Additionally, each party must have at least 7 days to review the final draft before signing it, which should be in the presence of both party’s attorneys.

Here’s what a prenup may include:

  • Age, salary, and medical conditions of each spouse
  • Details of a previous marriage
  • A comprehensive list of each party’s assets and liabilities, clearly defining what constitutes marital property and separate property.
  • Terms of property division and spousal support
  • Other financial responsibilities, such as household expenses and savings contribution

A well-written marital agreement should clearly illustrate the party’s intentions with regard to what should be treated as marital property. Some spouses choose to completely waive community property rules so all joint assets will be decided by them rather than divided 50/50.

Our Irvine family law attorneys can help you make informed decisions during this process. We can draft a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement for you, protecting your rights and avoiding costly mistakes. Carefully weighing your needs and situation, we will craft the best plan for your future.

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Enforceability of Prenuptial Agreements Under California Law

Prenuptial agreements allow the couple to dictate ownership of their respective assets and how joint assets will be divided upon the divorce or death of a spouse. But, for a prenuptial agreement to be valid and enforceable, the following criteria must be met:

  1. Voluntary: Both parties must enter into the contract willingly without any fraud, coercion, misrepresentation, or pressure.
  2. Disclosure: Both parties must be fully aware of each other’s assets and liabilities before signing the agreement.
  3. Legal Representation: It is recommended that both parties must be represented by independent legal counsels before executing the agreement. If not, they must waive legal representation in writing.
  4. Consent: Each party must fully understand the terms of the agreement and consent to them voluntarily.
  5. Fairness: The agreement must not be unfair to either party. The terms should not be unconscionable or grossly unfair to one party when the contract is executed.
  6. 7-day Review Period: Both parties must have had atleast 7-day period to review the agreement from the time they were presented with the final agreement.

Is the Law the Same for Married & Unmarried Parents?

While unmarried parents have the same rights as married parents in California, the procedure of obtaining child custody & support is more complex. If the parents were married during childbirth, there’s no doubt regarding legal parentage. However, parentage must be established for unmarried parents by a mutually signed declaration or a court order.

Until the declaration or order is passed, it will be presumed that the child has no legal father. An action of paternity can be initiated by the biological mother to seek support for raising her child or the biological father wanting to support and have a meaningful relationship with the child.

It’s important to note that California obligates both parents to financially support their minor children, regardless of marital status. So, even if the biological father separates from the partner before or after childbirth, he will still owe child support for the health and well-being of the child.

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Establishing & Contesting Paternity

The most conclusive proof of paternity is the father’s name on the child’s birth certificate. There are two ways to establish paternity:

  1. Voluntary Declaration of Parentage (VDOP)

    Parents can voluntarily establish paternity by signing an acknowledgment document at the hospital during childbirth. A VDOP firmly establishes parental rights and is legally binding.

  2. Court Order

    If paternity is disputed, either parent may request DNA testing to determine the father. The court will order genetic testing of the mother, child, and presumed father to legally establish paternity

The presumed father or any other individual has only 2 years from the child’s birth to challenge paternity in court. However, once the DNA test results confirm fatherhood, it can be extremely difficult to rescind it.

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How Does Custody Work for Unmarried Parents?

  • Mother

    An unwed mother’s parental rights to custody can be easily established. The mother’s name on the birth certificate is conclusive proof of parentage, establishing her parental rights.

  • Father

    The unwed biological father does not gain parental rights unless his name is on the child’s birth certificate or voluntarily agreed by the mother and established in a VDOP. If parentage is confirmed, the man is considered the child's legal father. Thereafter, he can petition the court requesting custodial rights. However, his parental abilities will still be assessed before he is granted joint custody.

Once paternity is confirmed, the father earns the right to make parenting plans with the mother, deciding physical custody, legal custody, and visitation schedules. The father also acquires the right to pay child support.

Amicable Solutions For Your Divorce

Your divorce doesn’t have to be a bitter courtroom battle with a ‘I win, you lose’ outcome. Our Irvine family law attorneys work with clients to find non-adversarial solutions that save time, money, and stress and sustain a cooperative relationship even after divorce. Our attorneys offer strategic, resolution-focused legal services, including:

  1. Collaborative Divorce

    Both spouses, and their respective attorneys, work together to negotiate a fair settlement on key issues like child custody, child support, property division, and alimony. Both parties resolve disagreements peacefully without going to court.

  2. Mediation

    In mediation, both parties communicate and cooperate to resolve key issues with the help of a neutral third-party, called the mediator. The mediator helps both parties reach common ground on custody, support, and property division issues without having to litigate. This process is confidential, amicable, and less expensive than a litigated divorce.

  3. Uncontested Divorce

    If parties agree to all the terms of their divorce, they can enter into a mutual agreement and finalize their divorce. This is the quickest and cheapest way to legally dissolve the marriage.

Why do we Prioritize an Amicable Approach?

  1. Preserving your emotional well-being and family bonds
  2. Minimizing time, stress, and legal fee
  3. Creating a more stable, healthier, and positive environment for the child
  4. Giving you more control over the outcome

As experienced Irvine family law attorneys, we’re here to help you navigate divorce with respect, clarity, and cooperation. Speak to Jos Family Law if you’re considering an amicable path toward divorce.

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Why Choose Our Irvine Family Law Firm?

  1. In-depth Knowledge of the Local courts & Procedures

    At Jos Family Law, we have over 55 years of combined experience in helping clients navigate California family laws & procedures. We also understand the local court system and judges and how to tip the scales in your favor.

  2. Personalized Legal Strategies For Your Family

    Our attorneys offer personalized attention to every client, tailoring strategies to their needs, goals, and situations.

  3. Strong Advocacy With a Compassionate Approach

    We’re settlement-minded but always trial-ready. We prioritize amicable methods to resolve your issues but aren’t afraid to protect your rights aggressively in court.

  4. Clear Communication

    ?Our law firm clearly communicates with clients at all times, keeping them informed of developments, their options, and rights so they can make informed decisions about their future.

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Binoye Jos

Founder/Lead Attorney

Binoye Jos is the founder and lead attorney at Jos Family Law. Throughout his career, Binoye has represented thousands of individuals and families before Orange County family law courts with a successful track record. He exclusively focuses on divorce and family law matters in California.

Binoye had a successful career in a multi-billion dollar industry managing and training marketing directors until he faced his personal child custody battle. Only married for two years, yet his child custody dispute took 5 years and cost $400,000. Even after 198 filings and representation by two high-profile attorneys, he could not obtain a custody order that was in his son's best interests. Left with only one option, he represented himself and won 50% of his son’s custody in just a few months. After his victory, he decided to become a family law attorney, helping families stuck in similar situations.

After forming his law firm, Binoye started offering personalized support to every client, meeting their diverse needs. He recognizes the need for honest, ethical, and competent attorneys and leaves no stone unturned in exceeding the expectations of his clients

His meticulous approach and singular focus on family law gives clients the peace of mind of experienced, knowledgeable, and effective representation for their legal problems. If you need a family law attorney in Irvine who can fight for your rights, please don’t hesitate to contact Jos Family Law today. Call (714) 733-7066 or send an email to jos@josfamilylaw.com for a comprehensive consultation today.

Schedule a Confidential Consultation With an Irvine Family Law Attorney

At Jos Family Law, we understand that family law matters are often emotional and sensitive. Our team of knowledgeable & seasoned attorneys will provide you with the compassion and knowledge you need to navigate through this difficult time. Our clients are our first concern.

We take great pride in assisting individuals with a variety of issues, including division of assets, divorce, child custody, and other domestic matters. We will work relentlessly to safeguard your rights & fight for your best interests.

Call (714) 733-7066 for a confidential consultation with our Irvine family law attorneys today.

Frequently Asked Questions

Once you meet the residency requirements, you can start the divorce process by submitting a petition for dissolution of marriage and serving a copy to your spouse.

In California, both parents have the right to spend equal time with their children unless the court finds that such an arrangement harms the best interests of the child. A common arrangement includes the child living with one parent on weekdays and visiting the other on weekends. However, many factors come into play here, and child custody and visitation schedules may significantly vary from case to case.

California imposes the legal duty on both parents to financially support their minor children. Child support is based on each parent’s income and the amount of time each parent physically spends with the child. The court may order one or both parents to bear the expenses of child-rearing. Generally, the non-custodial parent pays child support to the custodial parent.

Mediation is a way for divorcing or separating couples to work out a settlement agreement on their own with the help of a neutral third party without going to court. Compared to litigation, it can save significant time and cost. However, mediation isn’t ideal for high-conflict parties unwilling to cooperate & compromise.

We can obtain restraining orders to prevent the abuser from contacting you, coming near you, and staying away from your home, office, and children.

Get In Touch

Our attorneys are here to help you during every stage of your case. Schedule a confidential consultation and know your options with the seasoned counsel of top family law attorneys.

Contact Information

Please call, email, or contact our office online to arrange an appointment for your case today.

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Sonia Fernández

Jos exhibits exceptional compassion and understanding, promptly addressing all inquiries to facilitate clarity and calm throughout the process with comprehensive and sincere explanations. He offers potential solutions to minimize unnecessary court costs. His team operates efficiently and effectively to complete the task. I highly recommend this law firm as it operates with integrity.

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Carlos Serrano

Thank you very much to Mr. Jos and to all his group of professionals who helped me get out of my child support case with a very good result. Each case is different and my case was very complicated. I live in the state of Virginia and the child support office of the state of California was starting a case against me, the amount they wanted me to pay was ridiculously high I didn't know what to do because I don't live in California and I had never met the child either. I searched online for a lawyer in California and thank God I found Mr. Jos's law office. I don't know them personally but I put my trust in them and they didn't disappoint me. We had very good communication despite the distance and they were always available to talk to me and clarify my doubts. Mr. James was the one who took my case to the end and after a long and very difficult process everything went very well in my favor much more than expected. I am very grateful to God for putting the entire team of professionals from Mr. Jos' office on my way. Words are not enough for me to describe everything they did for me and how grateful I am. I definitely recommend Mr. Jos's law firm. Thank you Mr. James for not giving up in my case and having achieved a magnificent result in my favor.

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Alexandra Duvall

Jos Family Law has been absolutely fantastic in helping me through my child custody case. Mr Jos communicated with me throughout the entire process. He was very empathetic and understanding with my case and my concerns. The team was always supportive and never once did I feel like they didn’t take my case seriously. I’m so grateful I chose this law firm to represent me and I would 100% recommend this team to anyone seeking assistance. In the end I received the outcome I was looking for which was Sole Physical Custody. Thank you so much Jos Family for representing me.

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Marco Galatro

This was the second attorney that represented me for my divorce. Binoye is a very knowledgeable, fair, and professional attorney. They are reliable and this made my experience way less painful. They are definitely not greedy for money, they are not one of the many attorneys out there who overbill for their services. I truly recommend them.

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Roya

Mr. Jos is by far the best attorney l've ever had to work with. He is diligent, extremely prepared and informed and patient with his clients and goes above and beyond the call of duty to make sure you get the results you are hoping for. I recommend him to anyone who needs a Family attorney.

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Ricardo Lajaruna

My most sincere gratitude to the attorney Mr. James Sowers, who is very knowledgeable about the law, works with and for his clients. He is very transparent, honest and I am very grateful for his great support. His legal representation is highly recommended!!!

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Nader Zayid

JOS family Law took on my case which entailed custody and move away components and I honestly could not say enough great things about JOS Family Law! Mr. Jos is not only extremely knowledgeable and professional, but it is also extremely obvious how much he cares for his clients on a personal level as well. There is an expression that two heads are better than one, however, Mr. Jos' philosophy takes it further as eight heads are better than two. It was so impressive and reassuring how collaborative everyone at the office works together to meet on regular cadences and discuss their client's cases to brainstorm strategies in order to seek the best possible outcome for their clients. Mr. Jos has an amazing team of extremely talented and knowledgeable attorneys that have worked together on my case. James was the lead attorney on my case and also represented me in my hearing. James was able to get us everything we were asking for as he successfully proved that full custody remaining with me is in the best interest of the children and that the move away is in the best interest of the children as well. We were able to come up with a plan to ensure that the children's mother can visit regularly and still maintain a healthy relationship. James is a rock star attorney! I would without hesitation refer anyone seeking help in a family law matter to call Jos Family Law!

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