What Percentage of Marriages End in Divorce?

Many families across California are established by marriage. Marriages are often the starting point of a family, but not all marriages last. Sometimes, the only option for the family's well-being is divorce. If you are considering divorce in California, a divorce lawyer in California can help you navigate the process, including filing paperwork, negotiating or mediating with your ex-spouse, and representing you in court. 

It's critical to understand the divorce rate in the country and California To assess your options and make divorce-related decisions.

Why do Couples Divorce?

In 2021, the marriage rate in the US was 6 per 1,000 individuals, while the divorce rate stood at 2.5 per 1,000 individuals. So why do so many couples opt for divorce?

Every marriage is unique, and so is the relationship shared between the individuals. Whether due to financial constraints or emotional reasons, every couple goes through different situations that compel them to divorce. Here are some common causes of divorce:

·1. Differing Views, Opinions, Lifestyle

Every person has a unique viewpoint and opinion regarding marriage. Sometimes, individuals don't respect or cannot live by the cultural differences of their partners, leading to disagreements, disputes, and ultimately - divorce. 

2.· Financial Difficulties

The cost of living in California is high, and almost all of us face financial problems now and then. Indeed, money is a big factor why some marriages end in divorce. Things may also get heated if one partner earns significantly more than the other. Financial arguments between couples may take an ugly turn, compelling them to seek divorce. 

3. Domestic Violence

Unfortunately, domestic violence is rampant in the US. Approximately 33% of women and 25% of men are victims of rape, physical violence, stalking, or other kinds of abuse. Domestic violence is a major contributor to the divorce rate across the US. 

4. Infidelity

As per the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT), 15% of married women and 25% of married men in the US have extramarital affairs. Infidelity is one of the most common reasons for couples to split. 

5. Immaturity

Key statistics have revealed that couples who get married in their 20s are more likely to get divorced in their 30s. Some people marry early in their lives, when they may not be capable of handling the emotional and other aspects of marriage. 

6. Children

People marry to have children and start a family. Every parent wants to provide a caring and supportive environment for their children. But every household is different. If one parent resents having a child, divorce becomes the only option for the other spouse to provide a positive growing environment for their child. 

7. Incompatibility 

Couples live together and marry for companionship. You would want someone who can help you grow and you help them grow in life as well. But compatibility isn't always in our hands. One of the most common reasons for divorce is incompatibility between spouses which causes disagreements, arguments, and even distrust. 

8. Substance Abuse

Substance abuse may lead to distrust among partners, along with financial difficulties and parenting inability. Substance abuse can strain marriages beyond repair, leading to a divorce. 

How Many Marriages End in Divorce?

Nearly half of all marriages in the US end in divorce. This is especially true for first marriages. 

However, there has been a steady decline in the rate of divorces in the past few years. The American Psychological Association states that the number of first marriages ending in divorce is 41%, as of 2024. 

In California, the divorce rate is lower compared to other states. As of 2021, the number of marriages that end in divorce is 8.9%, with 7.4% of men and 10.7% of women divorcing in the state. 

A decade ago, the divorce rate in California was nearly 10%. This steady decline, not just in the state but countrywide, is probably a good thing prima facie. But, it should be noted that the number of marriages in California has also been declining steadily during this period. 

When do Couples Divorce?

The duration of marriage varies depending on the circumstances of one individual to another. As per data from the US Census Bureau, the first marriages that ended in divorce lasted seven years approximately in 2021. 

This may be due to the decline of a feeling of happiness or lack of intimacy between the couples after so much time spent together. 

However, in our experience as divorce lawyers, we have seen marriages that do not last even six months. On the other end of the spectrum, spouses married for 16 years may still be unhappy and decide to separate. 

The Bureau also noted that people are more likely to get divorced in their 20s and 30s than beyond this age group.  

How Often do Divorced Couples Remarry? 

There has been an uptick in the number of people who have remarried following a divorce. The National Survey of Family Growth cites nearly 52% of divorced men and 45% of divorced women remarry within 3-5 years of their divorce. Overall, 6% of all divorced couples get remarried to each other in the US. 

Contact Experienced Divorce Attorneys in Orange County, CA

Navigating divorce requires a knowledgeable attorney who can provide guidance and support throughout the process. At Jos Family Law, we put our clients and their interests and goals first. We have 55 years of combined experience in providing outstanding legal representation and protecting the interests of families during the most difficult time in their lives. 

Divorce also requires the couples to settle other disputes such as child custody, asset division, and spousal support. Our seasoned family law attorneys specialize in all areas of family law. We understand your situation and devise a tailored strategy that meets your needs and goals. 

Do not hesitate to contact our divorce lawyers in Orange County for a stress-free process. Schedule a free consultation with Jos Family Law to discuss your case.

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